Section: Unfulfilled baby desire
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Getting no children is a hard test, especially for a woman. It can affect the self-confidence and also the marriage. And for a perilous person, perhaps because of envy, jealousy, or revenge, it may well be a target of black magic. However, experience shows that this is not very often the case. Therefore, it should first be ascertained that this is not a biological problem, i. E. one should consult a specialist. If no biological problem can be identified as a cause for infertility, Ruqyah should be considered.Yet, as always, the most important thing should not be forgotten: getting children is in the hands of Allah!Allahs is the kingdom of the heavens and the earth. He creates what He wants. He gives girls to whom He pleases, and He gives boys to whom He willth. Or He gives both, boys and girls, and He makes barren whom He willth; He is All-Knowing, Almighty. (As-Sura 49-50]Whether you can not get children because of a biological or a spiritual problem, it is easy for Allah to eradicate this problem if He wants. Hasan Al-Baṣrī had the following advice for couples who remained childless: one should take oneself to account and wonder whether a sin might be the reason why God does not bless one with children, and ask for forgiveness.Ask forgiveness from your Lord; Verily, He is OftForgiving; He will send (rain from the sky upon you in [continuing] showers, and give you increase in wealth and children and provide for you gardens and provide for you rivers. [Nuh 10-12]The best Du'a for forgiveness is Sayyidul Istighfarاَللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، خَلَقْتَنِيْ وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِيْ فَاغْفِرْ لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَTransliteration: Allaahumma anta rabbee laa ilaaha illaa anta, khalaqtanee wa-ana ‘abduka, wa-ana ‘alaa ‘ahdika wawa‘dika mas-tata‘tu, a‘oothu bika min sharri maa sana‘tu, aboo-o laka bini‘matika ‘alayya, wa-aboo-o bithanbee, faghfir lee fa-innahu laa yaghfirudh dhunooba illaa anta.Translation: O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledge my sin, so forgive me, for verily none can forgive sin except You. [Bukhari, Muslim and others]One should supplicate especially for the blessing of having children as the Prophet Zakariya (AS) had done, who was then blessed with the prophet Yahya (AS):رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَTranslation: My Lord, do not leave me alone [with no heir], while you are the best of inheritors. [Al-Anbiya: 89]One should pay attention to prayer and daily remembrance of Allah. It is amazing how people master the worst calamities with these two things. Allah says:O you who believe! Seek help in patience and prayer, indeed Allah is with the patient. [Al-Baqarah: 153]One should also pay attention to the etiquettes of prayer (see appendix) so that prayer is better accepted by Allah.One should thank Allah for all that He has one given and be content with the determination of Allah.And when your Lord proclaimed: If ye give thanks, I will give you more; but if ye are thankless, lo! My punishment is dire. [Ibrahim: 7]Therefore, one should always be grateful and commemorate God in humility so that one is not like those described in the following verses:He it is Who did create you from a single soul, and therefrom did make his mate that he might take rest in her. And when he covered her she bore a light burden, and she passed (unnoticed) with it, but when it became heavy they cried unto Allah, their Lord, saying: If thou givest unto us aright we shall be of the thankful. But when He gave unto them aright, they ascribed unto Him partners in respect of that which He had given them. High is He Exalted above all that they associate [with Him]. [Al-Araf: 189-190]Now, if one is concerned that the problem could be related to Jinn or magic, one should do both the general protective measures, as well as the 7-day Ruqyah program and the Ruqyah bath. If one considers it necessary, one should then make the full Ruqyah program.One can also take blackcurrant oil or capsules, and read the following suras and verses on them, with the intention of Ruqyah to destroy the magic:Al-Fatihah; the three last Suras (3 Qul); Al-Baqarah 102; the verse of the throne (Al-Baqarah 255); Al-Baqarah 284-287;Al-A'raf, 117-122; Yunus 79-82; Taha 65-69. (All these verses can be found in the appendix.)Afterwards, blow on the oil / capsules and drink the normal dosage described on the pack until the pack is finished.